Video scene · 0:20 · Self-awareness, Resilience

Not that version of you

You are part of a group of friends who used to meet every week for board games.

You have not been invited for a month. Tonight you dropped by Odette and Raf's apartment to return a book and found a game set up on the living room table.

What's said in the scene

Odette: We should have told you. Game night with you stopped being fun.

Raf: You argue every rule. Last time you didn't speak to me for an hour.

Odette: We miss you. Just not that version of you.

Raf: Stay tonight if you want. But can you actually lose a game?

The two questions

  1. 1How would you respond to Odette and Raf?
  2. 2Why is it hard to see how our own behavior affects other people, and what helps?

What raters look for

Self-awareness
Recognizes own biases, limits and emotions, and seeks and uses feedback.
Resilience
Recovers from setbacks, manages stress constructively, and learns from failure.

Answer scenarios like this on the real timers

Watch the scene once, record your answers, and get each one scored 1–9 the way raters score. Your first set is free, no card.

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