Personal question · Self-awareness, Ethics
The role I always play
Friendships often settle into habits: one person always plans, always cancels, always agrees or always smooths things over. These roles can go unnoticed until something small makes them visible. Think about a friendship of yours where that happened.
The two questions
- 1Describe a time you noticed a pattern in how you behaved with a friend, such as always planning, always cancelling or always agreeing. What made you notice it, and what did it show you about yourself?
- 2Tell us about a time you acted on a pattern like this once you saw it. What did you do, how did your friend respond, and what would you do differently now?
What raters look for
- Self-awareness
- Recognizes own biases, limits and emotions, and seeks and uses feedback.
- Ethics
- Weighs competing duties honestly, protects people from harm, and stays accountable to rules and values.
Answer scenarios like this on the real timers
Answer both questions on the clock, and get each one scored 1–9 the way raters score. Your first set is free, no card.
Practice free
