Scene to read · Ethics, Communication
How we grew up
You are staying for a week at the home of your sister, Tamar, and her husband, Istvan.
Twice this week you have overheard Istvan call his son, who is eleven, worthless and stupid over math homework. Tonight, with the children asleep upstairs, the three of you are sitting on the back porch.
The scene
Istvan: My father tore my homework in half. I just use words.
Tamar: He's failing math. Somebody has to push him. That's how we both grew up.
Istvan: And I turned out fine. Kids today hear nothing but praise.
Tamar: You've been quiet all night. Is something bothering you?
The two questions
- 1What would you say to Tamar and Istvan, if anything?
- 2When, if ever, is it right to comment on how someone else raises their child?
What raters look for
- Ethics
- Weighs competing duties honestly, protects people from harm, and stays accountable to rules and values.
- Communication
- Listens first, speaks clearly and respectfully, and adapts the message to the listener.
Answer scenarios like this on the real timers
Answer both questions on the clock, and get each one scored 1–9 the way raters score. Your first set is free, no card.
Practice free
