Scene to read · Self-awareness, Equity

The four you have dinner with

You captain a Thursday-night futsal side for players over fifty and set the lineup.

Your side has won five in a row and plays a semifinal next week. On the bench after tonight's game, Nizhoni and Connor pack up beside you. Connor is one of the four players you have dinner with most weekends, and they are among the stronger players.

The scene

Nizhoni: I counted tonight. The four you have dinner with played almost every minute.

Connor: Because we're scoring. Five straight wins, and a semifinal next week.

Nizhoni: Maybe. Or you just know their game best. Pete and I sat thirty minutes.

Connor: Whatever you're doing works. You'd change it right before a semifinal?

The two questions

  1. 1What would you say to Nizhoni and Connor, and what would you change, if anything?
  2. 2How can someone check whether their own decisions are as fair as they feel?

What raters look for

Self-awareness
Recognizes own biases, limits and emotions, and seeks and uses feedback.
Equity
Notices unequal access or treatment and acts fairly, especially for people with less power.

Answer scenarios like this on the real timers

Answer both questions on the clock, and get each one scored 1–9 the way raters score. Your first set is free, no card.

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