Scene to read · Communication, Problem solving
Too much information, kindly
You are a close friend of Zephyr and Zita, helping Zita plan a difficult conversation.
After a long walk, Zephyr, 37, and Zita, 50, sit on a quiet park bench with you. Your mutual friend Rashid has just left after sharing another detailed dating story. Zita has laughed along for months despite feeling uncomfortable; Rashid is affectionate and seems unaware. Zita wants to speak to him today, while Zephyr favors waiting until their next private walk.
The scene
Zita: I keep laughing, but it's too much. I'd rather tell him today.
Zephyr: Maybe wait until your next walk. He won't feel put on trial.
Zita: But if I wait, he'll think I'm fine hearing all those details.
Zephyr: I just worry calling right now will make him replay everything.
The two questions
- 1How would you help Zita decide when and how to speak to Rashid, and why?
- 2Tell us about a time you had to say something hard to a friend. How did you choose your words, and what happened?
What raters look for
- Communication
- Listens first, speaks clearly and respectfully, and adapts the message to the listener.
- Problem solving
- Gathers facts before acting, considers options and consequences, and chooses a workable next step.
Answer scenarios like this on the real timers
Answer both questions on the clock, and get each one scored 1–9 the way raters score. Your first set is free, no card.
Practice free
