Scene to read · Communication, Ethics

The ridge trail alibi

You are at a climbing gym with your close friend Tomasz and his partner, Jia, whom you know well.

Last week Tomasz confided that he has been secretly seeing someone else. Now, resting on the mats between climbs, Jia brings up last Saturday, a day you spent at home on your own.

The scene

Jia: Tomasz said you two hiked all Saturday. Funny, neither of you mentioned it before.

Tomasz: It was a last-minute thing. Tell her, we got back late.

Jia: I'm not trying to trap anyone. I just want a straight answer.

Tomasz: Come on. Saturday, the ridge trail. Right?

The two questions

  1. 1What would you say to Jia and Tomasz in this moment, and why?
  2. 2When, if ever, is it right to keep a friend's secret from the person it affects?

What raters look for

Communication
Listens first, speaks clearly and respectfully, and adapts the message to the listener.
Ethics
Weighs competing duties honestly, protects people from harm, and stays accountable to rules and values.

Answer scenarios like this on the real timers

Answer both questions on the clock, and get each one scored 1–9 the way raters score. Your first set is free, no card.

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