Scene to read · Communication, Equity

Write 'members' on the box

You are helping sort donations for a winter coat drive in your parents' basement.

The cultural association your family helped found is collecting coats, advertised as being for newly arrived families. Your aunt Ayana will hand them out tomorrow. Upstairs a minute ago your mother, Sunita, quietly asked you to talk to Ayana, because Ayana listens to you. Now the three of you are sorting.

The scene

Ayana: Warmest ones in this box. Our own people first, then the newcomers.

Sunita: The flyer did say new families. Well. The organizers can sort it out tomorrow.

Ayana: Three of our families have no heat this winter. Twenty years they've given here.

Ayana: Write 'members' on this box for me. You've got the marker.

The two questions

  1. 1What would you do, and what would you say to Ayana?
  2. 2How do you disagree with an older relative about fairness without dismissing the experience behind their view?

What raters look for

Communication
Listens first, speaks clearly and respectfully, and adapts the message to the listener.
Equity
Notices unequal access or treatment and acts fairly, especially for people with less power.

Answer scenarios like this on the real timers

Answer both questions on the clock, and get each one scored 1–9 the way raters score. Your first set is free, no card.

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