Scene to read · Empathy, Communication
Third one today
You are a close friend of Kunal, who was laid off two months ago.
Kunal has told you he is unhappy about the weight he has gained since losing his job, and he looks worn out today. At a Saturday farmers market pie stand, he is buying his third pastry of the morning. His sister Linh is with you both.
The scene
Kunal: Third one today, I know. Be straight with me. Am I letting myself go?
Linh: Kunal, you asked me that Tuesday and hated my answer.
Kunal: Because you're my sister. I'm asking someone who'll tell me the truth.
Linh: Then we both want to hear it. Go on.
The two questions
- 1What would you say to Kunal, and why?
- 2Describe a time a friend asked you for an honest opinion that you knew might hurt. How did you respond?
What raters look for
- Empathy
- Recognizes what others feel and need, and lets that shape the response without losing judgment.
- Communication
- Listens first, speaks clearly and respectfully, and adapts the message to the listener.
Answer scenarios like this on the real timers
Answer both questions on the clock, and get each one scored 1–9 the way raters score. Your first set is free, no card.
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