Scene to read · Equity, Self-awareness

What was so funny?

You are out for pizza with your close friend Dinesh.

After Lan, your server, took the order and walked away, Dinesh repeated it in an imitation of her accent, and you laughed before you could stop yourself. Dinesh does the same affectionate impressions of his own parents. Lan comes back to the booth with your drinks.

The scene

Lan: Two lemonades. You two were having fun over here. What was so funny?

Dinesh: Oh, nothing. Just a dumb joke. My family does voices all the time.

Lan: Voices? I thought I heard my own order coming back at me.

Dinesh: No, no. Tell her. We were just messing around, right?

The two questions

  1. 1What would you say to Lan and to Dinesh?
  2. 2What responsibility do you have for a joke you laughed at but did not make?

What raters look for

Equity
Notices unequal access or treatment and acts fairly, especially for people with less power.
Self-awareness
Recognizes own biases, limits and emotions, and seeks and uses feedback.

Answer scenarios like this on the real timers

Answer both questions on the clock, and get each one scored 1–9 the way raters score. Your first set is free, no card.

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