Personal question · Collaboration, Communication

Win them over or work around

Winning a person over takes energy and does not always pay off. Think about a crew, committee or project group where you eventually had to choose between investing more in one difficult working relationship and quietly routing around it.

The two questions

  1. 1Tell us about a time you had to decide whether to keep trying to get through to someone you worked alongside or simply to work around them. What made you choose as you did?
  2. 2Describe the effect your choice had on the group and on that person, and what you would do differently now.

What raters look for

Collaboration
Works toward a shared goal, shares credit and load, and repairs friction inside a team.
Communication
Listens first, speaks clearly and respectfully, and adapts the message to the listener.

Answer scenarios like this on the real timers

Answer both questions on the clock, and get each one scored 1–9 the way raters score. Your first set is free, no card.

Practice free