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A 12-year-old asks you for birth control and begs you not to tell her parents. What do you do?

Ethical dilemma: Competing duties with no perfect answer: consent, confidentiality, fairness.

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Sample answer outline

  1. Notice the age. At 12, sexual activity is a safeguarding concern in most places, so the child's safety comes first.
  2. Before she shares more, explain honestly what you can keep private and what you can't.
  3. Talk gently and privately: who she is involved with, whether she feels safe, any signs of coercion or abuse.
  4. Follow mandatory reporting duties where they apply, with your supervisor and child protection services.
  5. Still meet her health needs: information, protection, and encouragement to involve a trusted adult.

What makes it work

  • It recognizes the safeguarding issue many applicants miss.
  • Being honest about the limits of confidentiality keeps her trust.

Avoid

  • Promising total secrecy.
  • Treating it like the same request from a 16-year-old.

How to approach ethical dilemma questions

  1. Clarify the facts and what you would want to know before acting.
  2. Name who is affected and the principles in tension: autonomy, doing good, avoiding harm, fairness, confidentiality.
  3. Walk through realistic options, starting with the least drastic.
  4. Choose a course of action, explain why, and say who you would involve.

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