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A family begs you not to tell their grandmother she has cancer because "it'll kill her faster." What do you do?

Ethical dilemma: Competing duties with no perfect answer: consent, confidentiality, fairness.

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Sample answer outline

  1. Listen to the family first: their fear and any cultural norms around sharing bad news.
  2. Explain that the information belongs to the patient, and that you won't lie to her.
  3. Ask the grandmother how much she wants to know and who she wants involved. Some people choose to let family decide.
  4. Share news at her pace, with the family present if she wishes, and plan support together.

What makes it work

  • Asking the patient what she wants resolves the dilemma respectfully.
  • It honors culture without giving up honesty.

Avoid

  • Telling her bluntly against the family's wishes without asking her first.

How to approach ethical dilemma questions

  1. Clarify the facts and what you would want to know before acting.
  2. Name who is affected and the principles in tension: autonomy, doing good, avoiding harm, fairness, confidentiality.
  3. Walk through realistic options, starting with the least drastic.
  4. Choose a course of action, explain why, and say who you would involve.

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