Scene to read · Self-awareness, Equity

Favors with a bill

You lend your tools to the whole row of townhouses and like to remind people of it.

In your family, neighbors kept careful track of who had helped whom. At your garage door, your neighbor Soraya is returning your ladder, and you have just joked that she now owes you help moving a sofa. Your close friend Fernanda is helping you sort shelves.

The scene

Soraya: Here's the ladder. Honestly? Your favors always come with a bill.

Fernanda: I mean, you did bring up the drill at my birthday.

Soraya: Where I'm from, you lend something and never mention it again.

Fernanda: I figured keeping score was just your way. Is it?

The two questions

  1. 1How would you respond to Soraya and Fernanda?
  2. 2Is a favor still generous if you expect something in return? Explain your thinking.

What raters look for

Self-awareness
Recognizes own biases, limits and emotions, and seeks and uses feedback.
Equity
Notices unequal access or treatment and acts fairly, especially for people with less power.

Answer scenarios like this on the real timers

Answer both questions on the clock, and get each one scored 1–9 the way raters score. Your first set is free, no card.

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